When you have been a UEFA cup winning captain and double FA cup winner, you would expect a lot of the gratitude and praise to be reserved for your past coaches, team mates and your family, but for former Tottenham Hotspur captain Graham Roberts, he owes most of his medals to a stranger on a railway platform.
The Tottenham veteran was then mere non-league midfielder for Weymouth preparing himself for a move to West Brom. That is until Tottenham scout Bill Nicholson stepped in to intervene after a bizarre meeting with a fan at a train station.
“A person at a train station got talking to Bill Nicholson, he was planning to go and watch a player at Swindon but their game was called off. Bill was getting back on the train but the bloke said to him ‘what are you doing here?’ Bill said ‘I’ve been looking for a midfielder.’ The fan then told Bill: ‘get yourself down to Weymouth; they have the best midfielder Non-league football.’
As Graham performed on the pitch that afternoon he had little idea that one of the most successful managers in the history of the game was on the sidelines solely to watch him.
“Bill came down, watched me that afternoon – I didn’t even know he was there. I was supposed to be signing for West Brom on that Tuesday, Bill got to hear about that, he told Keith Burkinshaw (then Tottenham manager) and Keith made an offer on the Tuesday whilst I was at West Brom and I changed my mind and went to Tottenham and signed for them.”
This sudden twist in fate prompted potentially drastic changes in Graham and his wives future. With his wives heart set on the midlands, the decision to sign at Spurs was fraught with risk. Despite this it was a gamble Roberts was prepared to take, Burkinsaw had got his man and Mrs Roberts was required to cancel her preparations for a move up north!
“It wasn’t an easy decision, West Brom did everything they could to keep me signing for them but I just made up my mind that I wanted to stay down South. It was just a bigger club, bigger players and more of a chance to go on and win things,” he admitted.
“Everything in life is a gamble, I had to make a decision there and then – my wife wanted to go up to West Brom but I changed my mind and changed her mind and moved to London.”
To know more about the now 54-year-old, you would have to go back to his teenage years where Roberts was brought up in the South of the UK and worked on local markets in the city of Southampton. Even then, the passion which Roberts was renowned for as a professional footballer was there as a kid as he recalls a meeting with his careers teacher to discuss his future.
“[She] said to me: ‘what happens if you don’t make it?’ I said ‘I will make it.’ I always had that something inside me which believed I could do it and achieve my overall goal of making it professionally.”
Prior to that, Roberts owes a lot of his achievements to his late mother, who not only brought Graham up but was also the manager of the local football team. Graham wasn’t his mothers only success story as the team produced not just one professional footballer, but four.
“My mum was the manager of the Sunday league team – she just loved football and in the end there were four players from that side who made it as professional footballers – Graham Baker, Steve Chalk, Alan King and myself.” Roberts’ most defining moment in a Lilywhite shirt came on a Wednesday evening in Tottenham back in 1984 as he captained his side in the second leg of the UEFA cup final against Anderlecht. Tottenham trailed 2-1 on aggregate with just six minutes remaining in the game when Roberts popped up with a late equaliser. It was a moment that hasn’t been forgotten and one he fondly recalls.
“I remember the goal well – when I’m with Ossie (Ardiles) I’ll always thank him for missing from six yards”, he laughed.
“He missed, everybody relaxed but the ball was with Micky (Hazard) and I knew what he was going to do. Mark Falco was in-front of me and he pushed the big blonde lad out of the way, I took it on my chest, rode a tackle and then slid it in to the net. With that it was ecstasy that came in – just a massive relief to get back into the tie really.”
As the match went to what most within the game describe as the ‘dreaded’ penalty shoot-out, Roberts was surprisingly confident of the outcome and recalls a conversation he had with manager Keith Burkinshaw just prior to the penalties.
“I’ve never hidden away from a penalty – I spoke to Keith about the pens and said ‘if we win the toss, I’ll take the first one and then they’ll be catching up on us.’ He agreed and said ‘yeah, whatever you wanna do’. Me scoring the first one and then them missing it meant that the pressure was on them all the time.”
Even when ‘little Danny Thomas’ – as he was so famously known – missed the teams fifth and final penalty, the skipper was still confident of success and paid tribute to the supporters who were there on that famous night in the history of the club.
“I hear people say there were 47 or 48 thousand there that night but I reckon there was more than that. The way they cheered and sang Danny’s name after he missed gave Parksy (Tony Parks) the confidence and belief to save the penalty to win us the cup.”
Three years earlier the Tottenham man had achieved every Englishman’s dream and worked his way up in the game to win the FA cup at Wembley.
“To win the FA cup was a massive honour – exactly a year before 81 I was a non league player, so to go from that to an FA cup winner was a huge achievement.”
The club great admitted that on a personal level the European night at White Hart Lane remains his proudest moment.
“That UEFA cup night will always be my best moment – it doesn’t get any better than to lift a European trophy on your own ground, but of course the FA cup day is up there with one of the greatest days of my life.”
Despite Tottenham sometimes having the reputation as the ‘Southern softies’, Roberts was definitely the exception to this rule and remembers being every club doctors worst nightmare.
“I just had my teeth knocked out , stitches in my head and the doctor unsurprisingly told me to come off but there was simply no chance of that – ‘sorry Doc, I’m not coming off – patch me up because I’m going back on’, he remembers saying, not asking.
That passion and pride for a trophy is something that many past players and greats of the game are often left somewhat upset about as they look at the current crop of professional footballers – particularly those at the top level.
Graham was no different and has a strong view on modern players, issuing a stark warning for those who choose financial gains over potential cup glory.
“Winning cups is what counts – just look how much Arsenal is going out to win the FA cup this season – none of their players have medals so it would mean the world to them. Yeah you can have as much money as you want but when these players finish their careers, how many of them can say I have two FA cups and one European cup?”
Roberts and other club legends are regularly hosting after dinner events and question and answers sessions (Q&A’s) but the former cup winning captain questions what some of the modern players are going to do once they finish the game.
“Yeah alright they might have millions in their bank but they can’t buy the history and memories that we’ve got. I feel sorry for them – we do after dinners and Q&A’s but what would they say? ‘Well we finished fourth then and 5th then.’ That’s all they have – no medals, just money.”
The Tottenham man left the club in 1986 and played for another six clubs following his Tottenham exit – most notably Rangers and Chelsea, but after retiring from the game he swiftly turned his attention to management.
In 2005, the former Rangers man was the manager of Clyde and took his side to Rangers for a cup game. Roberts was a league and cup double winner with Rangers but recalls the day as one which so nearly didn’t go as expected.
“I remember the Rangers game well – getting a fantastic reception from the supporters, but it didn’t go to plan for them as we (Clyde) were 2-1 up with 12 minutes to go and then the supporters started to get angry. Eventually they scored and we lost 5-2 in extra time.”
Shortly after his Clyde side were at it again, but this time it was a game that Roberts could not only enjoy but one he was determined to win. It was his old rivals. The arch enemy. Celtic.
“The Celtic game was one I was desperate to win and I mean desperate – I didn’t get a good reception from them then but I didn’t really listen too much or care .I was too busy with the game and with that got a plan together and it worked and we won 2-1. It flattered them to be honest; it should have been 5 or 6. It meant so much to beat them as they could have got the treble that year so that was extremely pleasing to put a stop to that.”
Graham’s adventure didn’t stop there as he became the coach of Pakistan’s national team but left a few months in as he became increasingly concerned about his own safety.
“An agent rung me up and said ‘I’ve got a job for you,’ I said ‘where?’ he said: ‘Pakistan’.” I started laughing as I thought it was some prank call! I went there and it was an experience. It lasted three months – they wanted me to stay on for another two years but I said no because I valued my life too much. There were bombs going off everywhere – it just wasn’t a good situation to be in.”
Today, Roberts couldn’t be further from a country torn apart by war, but his commitment to help others less fortunate has never been too far away.
“I try to do lots of charity wok – there’s a little girl called Stacey who we’re trying to get to America to receive life saving treatment. We’re all working very hard to get her there as it’s a heart breaking story. My mum died of cancer so I’ve always tried to help this particular cause.”
Robert’s career was given a lift off and helping hand by a stranger at a train station and it’s clear that this former footballing great will now do anything he can to help a person in need as he donates his time and money to charity causes up and down the United Kingdom documenting and speaking about his past action packed career at the top of the game.